Confidence! what does it mean to me?

Confidence! what does it mean to me?

When I hear the word confidence, one thing comes to my mind; and that is believing in yourself and in every aspect of your daily life.
I always thought that the most beautiful characteristics a woman can have are confidence, doesn’t matter how expensive your clothes are or what brand is it you are wearing, if you lack trust in yourself, it is worthless. I understand that the majority of people would say “sexy” is about the body, how a woman looks physically would determine how she is perceived. But, to me “sexy” is a woman with confidence that in turn breeds elegance.

I have a great admiration for women who have very little fear of other people’s opinion, one thing we need to remind ourselves is that people gossip, people are insecure, so they talk about other people so that they won’t be talked about. They also point out flaws in others to make themselves feel better. This behavior is always present in every social class.

 

 

But the big question is, how affected do you want to be by other people’s words? The truth is, beauty comes in different forms and I strongly believe that the most amazing thing is confidence and loving all of you. Because that’s what’s gonna to take you further in life. So next time you look in the mirror, you say to yourself I am confident, I am strong, I am smart, I am beautiful. Because, if you don’t believe it no one else will.
Therefore, I encourage you to credit yourself, because we are all tortured by limitation and constraint of living but, still we always manage to go on. That is not something small, but something that we should and feel self-gratitude towards.

Like what the clinical phycologist (Jordan Peterson) says, “we deserve some respect, you deserve some respect, you are important to other people as much as to yourself, you have a vital row to play in the unfolding destiny of the world”. And for this to happen, confidence needs to be in the picture.
Do you agree with me?

2 Comments

  1. Martine
    August 16, 2018 / 2:27 pm

    This is so true, Grace! Made me really thing about myself and wanna do a change. Thank you 🙏🏻

    • gracejackobsen
      Author
      August 16, 2018 / 3:39 pm

      Martine thank you so much for your comment.. i’m so glad you liked it..

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